‘Sell your car and give me the money’: After having an expensive wedding, entitled groom asks friends for a loan, and goes as far as asking them to sell their car for him

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    Entitled "friends" asking us to sell my husband's car
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    FOR SALE "Why don't you sell your own car?"
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    Obligatory announcement: English is not first language and I'm on mobile So this story happened around 7 years ago, my husband (DH - 35M) and I (31F) were dating for a year. He was invited to a wedding of his two
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    friends from uni (for the story they will be EG-34M and EB- 33F). EG was actually my husband's roommate for a year and from what he told me they were very close and friends with his parents too. So DH asked me to be plus 1 to wedding.
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    We went and it was a wedding where no money was saved. It was in the garden of an expensive hotel (like Hilton) and with full course meal, lots of drinks etc.
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    We were seated to a table far away from the bride& groom,not close to family and friends tables also. DH also didn't know anyone on the table. I was a bit irked but DH is a bit naive, so we gave our gifts and danced, had over all good time.
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    After wedding we learned that couple went to Maldives for a month for honeymoon. 2 weeks after the honeymoon, EG calls my husband and asks for a loan. He tells that his father's
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    company is not going well and due to some tax reasons his father named EG as the owner so he is a lot of debt. His wife also doesn't have any savings, they just bought her a car.
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    DH tells him that he doesn't have much also, he can only spare 1000 euro but not more. EG tells him to sell his car and give them the money
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    DH comes and asks my opinion, he says they are in bad place etc. I'm like "audacity they have " and ofc explained him they shouldn't have so expensive wedding, if they have money problems. And why don't they sell their own car??
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    At the end, he didn't give any money and we never heard from them again. Still puzzles me though, how can you be so entitled to ask someone to sell your car to pay your debt??
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    Excellent_Ad1132 · 16 hr. ago . Trust me, he didn't lose a friend, he lost a user. Anyone oblivious enough to have a large expensive wedding and honeymoon and then ask for money from 'friends' is not worth having in your lives.
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    This supposed gifted business will be closed within a few years, because the owners haven't got a clue of how to budget their money.
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    Routine-Mess OP. 16 hr. ago You are right, they were both users. And they filed bankruptcy that year
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    The_bookworm65. 3 hr. ago And they would have written off your loan in that bankruptcy. My uncle did. this to his siblings.
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    Katana1369 16 hr. ago I'm more concerned that your husband actually considered it.
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    fehk82 14 hr. ago Thank goodness he ran it by her first. But still concerning that he considered it
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    justheretolurk3 . 9 hr. ago Yea. OP really didn't do her husband justice in this story. I don't think I'd call a grown man having to think about whether to sell his own car to
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    loan money to someone who just bought a new one... naive. That's just not the word I'd use.
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    ReasonableGarden839 16 hr. ago I thought EB and EG meant Entitled Boy and Entitled Girl. But the way your phrase thing I think it's Entitled Guy and Entitled BIH, is that right?
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    the_storm_eye. 16 hr. ago I read that as Entitled Groom and Entitled Bride but I think I like your version better...
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    Routine-Mess OP. 16 hr. ago I also intended to as entitled groom and bride but yours is definitely better
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    Nerdybookwitch · 16 hr. ago I had someone with similar audacity ask me for money. I was in the Navy & a classmate from my A school contacted me asking for money. He said he couldn't afford his bills.
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    I was like dude what? We just got out of A school last month, you live in the barracks, what kind of bills do you have? He was kinda rude about it like it's none of your business,
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    everyone has bills, I can't afford mine. So I just texted him back that I couldn't afford to send any money, I had bills to pay.
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    I figured that was gonna be the end of it lol but then he messaged me AGAIN asking me to get a Navy-Marine relief corps loan and send him the money, but he'd pay me back of course! Wtf.
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    Veblen1 16 hr. ago If you were nice friends you would have bought them a new car. I mean, two cars, one pink and one blue. :)))
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    Routine-Mess OP. 16 hr. ago We should have paid for their house too, bc they just got married
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    iwishiwasjosiesmom 15 hr. ago I'm sure if your husband thinks back and re-evaluates his friendship and when they were roommates, he'll realized this has always been EG's behavior.

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